16 Oct 2012

Relationship Things

Trying to impress with home made meals that always go wrong

Using his legs as a hot water bottle when your feet are cold in bed

Borrowing his coat when yours just isn't cutting it
 
Foot rubs
 
Cups of tea on the sofa whilst watching Celebrity Juice/Homeland/Fresh meat etc etc
 
Discussing the lives of mutual friends (don't pretend you don't do it!)
 
 
Bonding over a mutual love of cats
 
 Do nothing days when we feast like kings and dress like slobs


What else? Trying new things to make each other happy (I go to football games, he goes to the theatre and girly films), getting smug when the cats choose one person over the other, texting each other (funny) insults to try and get a laugh when we're out with friends, making an effort with each others families, shopping for houses and holidays, inside jokes and small kindnesses - things like adding a bunch of roses to the shopping basket, handing over the last biscuit and buying his favourite body wash in Lush because I'm bad at budgeting and he doesn't like spending £8 on shower gel. The list could go on..

34 comments:

  1. Things like these are what makes it so strangely wonderful to have a partner. Loved this little charming post, really wish I had a boyfriend now though!
    So glad that you're happy x

    - I've followed your blog for a while but I haven't ever really commented on any of your posts *shame on me* and I'm sorry for that! I enjoy your blog so much and think you sound so lovely that I've almost been scared to talk to you!
    Silly me :)

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  2. I couldn't agree more, so lovely & sweet :) x

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  3. I love all these things that help to make a relationship better, so sweet;)

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  4. This is such a cute post! Made me feel all warm and fuzzy :)

    xx

    wearenouvellevague

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  5. Well I'm going to have to bond over a mutual love of kitties and I am very smug internally when my cats choose me over other people. The downside is I get moody and jealous when they choose someone else.

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  6. What a good man. I would never drag my husband to a girly movie because I know he would complain the whole time!

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  7. Oh this post did make my heart sad a little...but so cute and true! I need a new bf for winter STAT x

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  8. "Borrowing his coat when yours just isn't cutting it"- switch 'coat' for his clothes generally, and this is definitely me haha- the boy's got too many nice jumpers, t-shirts and cardies, and his boxers make excellent pyjama shorts... I've even got a jumper of his dad's that I wear.

    Do nothing days and small kindnesses are my favourite (: xx

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  9. Why are boys' legs always so warm? I do this practically every night now it's got chilly. What day is Fresh Meat on? I've missed the first episode already. I can't miss any more!

    x

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  10. you stole my life.

    gimme.

    erica x

    imbeingerica/blogspot.com

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  11. This is ever so lovely, I love seeing things couples do together because you can always relate. How cute :) xo

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  12. i love the little relationship things, they make me smile. adn last night i had a homecooked meal waiting and i felt so proud :)

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  13. I love the unintentional matching outfits best!

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  14. I love this post! I call my guy my human radiator because he is always (and i mean always) so warm, it's amazing : ) sounds like you and the Mr. are best friends as well as soulmates! X

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  15. very cute, a lot of these made me smile :)
    especially like the "lush body wash" point and the "cat jealousy" points... so adorable!

    rachel x

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  16. This makes my heart all mushy gushy. How sweet! You guys are really precious :)

    Brooke

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  17. yes! all of this. especially using his legs as a heater and then the rest of it all. relationships are the best.

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  18. This made me laugh, smile, and nod in agreement. I am guilty of all of these things. Other than the mutual love of cats... He tolerates my cat (but he's learning to love him!)

    We are definitely guilty of talking about mutual friends relationships, although it is usually me that brings it up! And my meals always go wrong.... I'm always telling him "I swear that I can actually cook and I'm good!"

    xox
    Jasmine

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  19. Thanks for your advice yesterday charlotte it was really helpful and hopefully my blog will do well...fingers crossed! Your blog made me want to star one myself, so thankyou for writing such an amazing blog!xx
    www.12cupsoftea.blogspot.com

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  20. I love the cups of tea I get!!

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  21. This is so lovely and me and my other half do many of the same things too (: I don't think there's ever been many times where our meals haven't ended differently to how we planned, and we're constantly sending insulting texts for the benefit of our friends (: xx

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  22. Charlotte i love how you see things, this post is fab xxxxxx

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  23. I can relate to so many things on your list - yay for doing-nothing-but-eating-too-much-days!

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  25. ciao! you (ad)dress your blog with much wit.
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  26. ahhh the slobbing out and eating days are my favourite, always hit the Doritos and chocolate hard HARD. I'm also enjoying that you do homemade meals, I get ancy if Lee's trying to help I'M SHOWING HIM HOW MUCH I LOVE HIM BY COOKING DUH. xxxx

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  27. This is really cute. I've never been in a relationship but this sounds so cute =)

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  28. Aaww such a sweet post. This made me smile, but now I really want a boyfriend...

    X Rose

    http://rose-libertine.blogspot.com

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  29. omg I love what you have picked! So cute. Especially the 'feast like kings and dress like slobs" one. love, love, love!

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  30. This list is so funny and so sweet at the same time. you definitely teach us how a couple has to make compromises.

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Thank you for being kind :)

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