15 Oct 2012

Q+A Answers Numero Uno (The Blogging Edition)

What made you want to start blogging initially? Was it a spur of the moment thing or did you plan it out completely before taking the plunge? 
I actually had two other blogs before I started Charlotte's Web. One (called 'Drink Tea, Write Stories') I posted on about 3 times and didn't tell anyone about - I started that one because I was a bored recent graduate struggling to find a job and thought it would be fun. I was in a bit of a crappy place emotionally at the time (unemployment makes me super moody) and so didn't really get into it. My second blog (Milk.. Two Sugars) I started one day at my first graduate job simply because I got through tasks quicker than they expected and had a lot of downtime, resulting in being very very bored. I ran that blog for about 7 months before walking away from it, I loved it so much but lost my mojo a bit when a stray cat we were looking after passed away. (I'm weird, I know)

Then came Charlotte's Web. Also completely unplanned if I'm honest. I can't remember what I was doing the day I started it, I just remember I'd been reading through Sofia's Journal and wanted to do her '100 Things That Make Me Happy' series, and so I did, and here I am! My outlook on my blog is very casual and relaxed, I hate planning too many posts and usually do things on the spur of the moment. I went through a phase earlier in the year where I would plan everything weeks in advance, and I really started hating blogging because of it. It's much more fun to just write whatever is in my head.. my advice to anyone wanting to start a blog is to just start. You'll figure it out as you go along :)


Would you blog if you only had 3 followers for the rest of your blogging-life? 
- Zoe
If I had only ever had 3 followers I like to think that I would, simply because I love to write. My boyfriend thinks I'd get bored and give up, which is probably closer to the mark. Blogging for me isn't about how many followers I have (I had 27 on my last blog and was thrilled with that) but I do really enjoy the interaction with other bloggers, which I don't think I'd get much of if I only had 3 people reading my ramblings. Then again, if those 3 people were all people that interacted with me and wanted to chat, I think I'd stick around.

However, if I suddenly lost all of the followers I have and only had 3 left, I'd probably be too sad to carry on blogging.


How do your friends and family in the real world view your blogging? 
My family doesn't know I blog, simply because I don't live with them and it has never come up in conversation. Though if my Mum said to me 'do you have a blog?' I'd tell her, I don't deliberately keep it a secret it's just something I don't tend to talk about. She doesn't understand the internet anyway, and my grandparents have never even used the web as far as I know, so I don't think they'd understand what I was saying even if I did tell them! If I was going to bring it up and show them out of the blue, I'd start with my Stepdad, he knows how to use e-mail and everything.

My 'real life' friends are cool with it :) they are all very nice people and very supportive. Again it's not something I bring up in conversation often (and I'm not on Facebook so don't promote my blog that way) so it's only my closest friends that are aware of it anyway.


Did you do your own blog design? Or did someone help you? 
After a lot (and I mean a lot, I had no idea what I wanted!) of back and forth I came up with roughly what I wanted, and chose the colours, font etc, but the whole thing was pulled together by a professional blog designer. I don't think I could have done it without her, and love how well my blog design reflects my personality now. You can find a link to the designer in my sidebar, she has worked with many other bloggers so can be trusted with your baby (by which I mean blog) --->


What's the best thing about blogging? 
Meeting (even if only online kind of meeting) people that I connect with. The majority of bloggers I have come across are wonderful people, and I love chatting to people on twitter/stalking them on instagram/ discussing things that don't interest a lot of people I know in the 'real world.' With everyone in the blogging world laying their life out for everyone to read, it's easy to find like minded people and to make new friends. And you can never have enough friends :)

18 comments:

  1. I just started my blog and my first post was viewed 28 times, but the newest one 4 times. How do you get people to read your blog?

    xx Anne

    www.lifeasarollingstone.blogspot.nl

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    1. Hey :)

      The best way to get your blog noticed is to interact with other bloggers.. tweet them, leave comments on posts etc and your view count will grow. if you want things to happen faster it is worth investing in some adverts on other blogs. Another thing you can do is submit your posts to social bookmarking sites like stumbleupon, or do some SEO. A useful post on SEO'ing your blog can be found here: http://www.littlebirdfashion.com/2012/09/blogs-and-seo-some-quick-tips.html

      hope that helps!

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  2. I'm enjoying this and I look forward to some more questions and answers. I agree the best part of blogging is having a chit chat with others, there are so many people like us out there! My friends know about my blog - saves me having to update them on life, I just say 'see blog' and that's that xxx

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  3. What a lovely post. I love reading how others started their blog, and what their passions behind their blog are. Yours is a unique story on how your blogs have come and gone through different stages in your life. I hope you stick with this one, as it's lovely :D

    OutsideBeautyInsideHealth

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  4. Interesting! My family doesn't know either...but mine is on purpose. :)

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  5. Thank you for answering my question so thoroughly :) I enjoy finding out why/how other people started their blogs being a newbie myself haha. I feel as though I've learnt so much already about blogging in the month or so that I've been doing it and I'm so glad I did it again a bit more seriously (I had a blog about 2 years ago that I didn't do very well with due to not posting and trying to be something I'm not) It's now deleted!
    xo

    www.jazzyleelbc.blogspot.co.uk

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  6. i love this post. and i love the interaction too--i just hope the longer i blog the more blogging friends i will make :)

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  7. I started blogging out of the blue too. I just decided on it, and did it, and I'm still here too. I think if I had a cat that died then I'd want to stop blogging for a while, probably for quite some time.

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  8. Most of my family knows about my blog. Sometimes I wish they didn't, but oh well. Only the grandparents I worked for tried telling how I could write because they thought everyone in Sticksville would find it on the web and it would reflect badly on them. (FYI, nobody ever found it and 3/4 of the people I met had no idea who my grandparents were lol)

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  9. I love meeting + chatting with amazing folks though my (+ others!) blogs!! One of my absolute favorite things about blogging!

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  10. I loved this! Instagram stalking is indeed fun and thankfully accepted in the internet community haha.

    Brooke

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  11. This is a lovely post - it's nice to see what motivates someone else to blog!

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  12. Ace post! That's so true about figuring it out as you go along, and about the best part of blogging being meeting new lovely people, and about not blogging just for followers, and pretty much all of the above :)

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  13. Thank you for answering Charlotte... I will have to try to get some money together after Christmas so that I can get a really nice blog design;)

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  14. I want to start a blog, but I don't want anyone to know, also I'd like to stay kind of annoymous. View countsdon't really bother me, as I just love to write. But my blog design is awful and because I'm quite young would have to get my parents permission before paying someone to do it. And I'd rather they didn't find out! Any advice?
    www.12cupsoftea.blogspot.co.uk

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    1. Hey,

      The best way to stay anonymous is to just use your first name and not post too many photos of your face - as for blog design, there are some great free ones :) these are pretty cute: http://www.puglypixel.com/category/blogger-templates/

      if you use a free design you don't need to tell your parents about it, just make sure not to post things like your address and phone number (seems like an obvious thing but ive seen people do it) and you'll get on fine.

      Hope that helps!! xx

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  15. This post is great. I love to hear about why others have started blogs. I started my blog as a way to come out of Internet anonymity because I had been stalking a few blogs for far too long. I often wonder how long I will keep it up. Only until it stops being a positive thing, I suppose. Seems like you are the same way. So sorry to hear about your cat...

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  16. My family know about my blog but not my friends. Isn't that weird?? I think it's because my family know me inside and out. If I wrote a diary type post, they'd probably already know everything about it.
    So why haven't I told my friends yet...
    I don't know, I'm confused... I'm not sure wether I haven't told them because I think they'll laugh?! (in a bad way) or because I like having something that no-one will judge? That makes it sound like I'm not close with my friends, which I am. I really have no idea why I'm keeping it a secret from them...x

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